Discernment Do's and Don'ts: A Practical Guide to Vocational Discernment
by Fr. George Elliott
This excellent book is exactly what it says: a practical guide. It's not exactly literary, but a solid faithful book of advice, cautions, explanations, and questions to ask yourself.
While this book is probably best suited for times of transition -- approaching high school or college graduation, for example -- the author also addresses those who are not yet ready to make vocational decisions. I intend to assign it to my son, entering eleventh grade this fall, but it is also appropriate for my eighth grade daughter. She has often expressed anxiety about not knowing what God wants her to do with her life. Fr. George explains that God often does not give us directions when we cannot act on them. So while she should continue to pray about her vocation, she should meanwhile do what is expected of her now without worrying so much about the future.
He also encourages the reader to begin immediately to develop a strong prayer life, a relationship with the Lord, and relationships with people who are wise in the faith. I particularly liked that, how the author doesn't provide all the answers but would say things like, "You should ask someone you know about a book recommendation." Making connections with Catholics you know in real life, in your parish or community, will make a tremendous difference as a young person matures and seeks a vocation.
Anytime I thought to myself, I would say this or that to my son after he reads this chapter, the author would say that very thing before the end. I can think of nothing I feel like he omitted.
There is some special attention to vocations of the priesthood or religious orders, but it's a universally applicable book. Married and single (non-religious) vocations are included in every chapter. Young men and young women alike will benefit.
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